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03 ottobre Bullshit Bullshit! Totally bullshit!!!
要不说什么三人成虎！
Why couldn't some people just take care of themselves and not pretend to be a big mother or father???
If not able to, then please show your courtesy to do so.
Everybody are independent and must be responsible for him or herself.
If in God we trust, then in FREEDOM we survive.
NO freedom, no life. that's why some poem saids: love goes second to freedom.
DO NEVER INTERFERE WITH OTHER PEOPLE's LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is like not interfering with other nation's policy!
Time tells, we'll see what happens....
To be continued....
28 marzo 信仰 总希望在有感触的时候能纪录点什么，这样也许等我老去的时候能凭借这些去回忆年轻时的冲动与轻狂。隐约记得家里有一本叫做宝宝成长纪录册的本子，母亲大概坚持纪录了几个月的样子。虽然近十几年自己好像只看过一两次，却仍记忆犹新。那种足月里的婴娃，抑或蹒跚学步的孩童是缺乏记忆的，这种侧面的记载无非提供了一条了解生命孕育的途径。
我到底是谁，从何处来，又将到何处去
体验忙碌的充实，也享受生活的喜悦；琢摸着到底应该怎么样，又应该如何对待一切。什么是应该坚持，什么应该改变。
突然想到那句话：其实世上本没有路，走的人多了，也就成了路。。。
02 marzo why people get married? 正在准备micro II期中，偶然看到这句话：impressive.
A woman seeks one man to fill all her needs and a man seeks every woman to fill only one need.
----------from armchair economics, Landsburg
It suddenly occurs to me, why then people get married though?
I have thought of the following reasons:
1. tradition matters, or say peer pressure.
Who would really like to be like a Out stander?! Notice that this is not outstanding. No matter however he or she advocates his independence and personality, Sociality is the second nature of human being.
2. For children consideration:
If a child born without a Legalized father, quite likely it would be a shame on the Mother. Moreover, if the child was not being cared from both sides, psychological problems are quite likely to appear later. Thus kinship is much different from courtship and consequently relationship. "Married people are happier!" Some surveys' results indicated this. However for me, I was wondering whether relationship without marriage would be a good solution. Isn't that fine for a person to be always in that kind of romantic feeling?
3.Techanically speaking, in economic sence, to form a Cartel.
A famility is a nicely united Cartel against the outside world, inside of which are characterized by Trust and Love. The formation of these united units of family is actually the best way to realize the Pareto improvement for the sociaty as a whole. Although there might be other issues being concerned, monogomy or other?
06 luglio 离别 家里的感觉总是非常亲切。和父母在一起快乐的感觉总是占着上风。但是毕竟在家的时间不多了，加上一开学就要有考试，似乎事情还不少。经常一个人在的时候，难免会思考。也许这就是独处 给人的礼物，它给了你很多空闲让你更加冷静...
汉字总是能章显它的艺术，“舍得“，仔细琢磨其实这个词汇包含着一个很漫长的过程。一个舍弃的过程和一个得到的过程。 有人说有舍才有得，或是说只有敢于放弃才能有新的收获。 可能从心里学的角度上这种说法是由一定道理的，这也使得我们看到了这个成语：破釜沉舟。也许有了这种勇气时，动力也就会大了很多。一无所有的时候人们总是更具勇气，因为这时候没有什么好放弃的，更没有什么是舍不得的；当我们拥有了一些的时候，我们就少了些舍的勇气。记得那天winnie送我，突然让我想到了阿木的歌：（虽然这更适合男生去怀念）最难跨越的不是千山万水而是某个女人的美，最难忘记的不是路途遥远而是某个女人的泪......泪水总是能揭示很多。这种离别的场面我一向非常恐惧。记得小时候看着妈妈走，还记得我问她：只需要一个月，对么？？她当时的沉默对幼小的我来说是肯定，但是事实证明了否定也是沉默的答案。美丽的谎言终究逃不过时间的考验...但是有希望终究是好的，即便我们把它称为自欺欺人。能相处毕竟是缘分，人们应该好好珍惜...恋人们的离别可能更能惊心动破，不知道是应该算是幸运还是不幸，至少现在已经很难感觉这种感受。曾经很喜欢一句话：最美丽的的爱情是还没有爱够就嘎然而止。也许离别就充当了这种嘎然而止的角色，它的无情反而成就了千古绝唱。也许这就是有人说"婚姻是爱情的坟墓。”一部分的 原因吧。 毕竟距离产生美，而人怀念的总是最美好的事物，无论是美丽的邂逅还是其他。
虽然勇气给我收获，但是顺其自然也是这一年最重要的领悟...
BLESS~~~~
PS: 补充签经：6。23 上海1000过。我是6号mm.问题很少，其实都是I-20上写得清楚的。
Q: you got a schalorship?
A: A tuition waiver and a graduate assistantship.
Q; You are going to study ...?
A; Economics, more precisely, exprerimental economics.
其实几乎她边问就已经在I20上写了些我一直没看懂得文字，把绿条子给了我。
不过由于等待的时间很长，在8号窗口下面听到了很多理科生应该注意的问题 ：
Q: your major?
A: physics.
Q: What kind of physics? (可能物理会有敏感专业的问题)
。。。
Q: your research plan?
Q: advisor's resume?
Q;offer letter?
记得的是这些问题。觉得这些签证官挺可爱的，中文说的不错之余又有着几分发音不准。
12 marzo Be aware of what one really need Long time past when the time come and evanturally have the incentive to record something. We always wonder what we really need and want. Unfortunately, not all those we desire fit and match us.
Like a man enjoys eating a humburger, but eating it everyday for a year will ultimately turns into refusing it in the rest of his life, in most cases. When one day, he sudenly realized that he should not have eaten humburgers so much early in his life. As he can never taste the remarkable feeling of enjoying them. What a pity!
So it seems that happiness only comes when you cannot own it all the time, how contradict?! If you have devour it so much and left nothing for the rest of you life, you will taste no more, even u are presented with those things.
I have always been a person in search of new things and uncertainty when i am even younger. Uncertainty gives you exitement and feeling of accomplishmentarity when you finally reach what you originally desired.
But really??? No, not actually. Complementarity actually means a lot, I cannot say it means everything. But people will reach balance when they are with those who are complementary to them. However, balance is always the status for a creature, isn't it?
Fun is different from happiness. I should have known this......
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